Thursday, October 20, 2011

The ones who I would fight for...

 
   Family is definitely something worth fighting for and it is something that we all need. Family is known as the people who care and love about you but at the same time they can be very annoying and humiliating.  I've had many "experiences" with my family which is great but at the same time it can get annoying and humiliating. Most people think of family as annoyance or something they take for granted until its to late to get them back but I do think like that sometimes but yet family is still something that you want no matter what happens. Since I am a teenager I normally don't like my family in general because they mainly bother me  a little but thats quite normal considering that as you get older you get more independent and therefore you find your family a little "bothersome". My family is really great and all but it definitely has its problems.  I will be honest, my family is somewhat normal as we do hang out and do activities with each other but I don't really like hanging out with them since I have friends that I'de rather hang out with.
        Family is needed for support and love. I have a quite better than average family and yeah they do support me. But other times they can crush your spirit and do a lot of other "horrible" things to you but at the end of the day you have to forgive them as you live with them. They are a big part of your lives and they are the people who you spend your most valuable time in your life with(childhood).  In most sports or tournaments I will see my family cheering for me and I am quite grateful to have a very supportive family. My brothers and sisters are not exactly the most "supportive" but my parents are very supportive of what I do and they give me a lot of advice rather than annoying me and stealing my stuff like my siblings do. But my siblings may actually do some good things for me such as doing favors or letting me borrow things which I do thank them for.
        Advice.... we all need it at some point in our lives and whats better than to tell the ones you love A.K.A family. Problems we have at school or if we are getting bullied is what we tell to our family. I don't actually talk about my problems to my family mostly because they don't care(just kidding) but in all seriousness its just an awkward thing to talk about. I mean problems are what counselors and friends are for. I only talk about grade problems or something physically wrong with me to my family. But some "unique" people out there may actually talk to people about their problems and that is quite good because family should care and be there for you when your in need. Other advice is about how to do something or how to be better at sports or something like that. In other words family is needed for support and advice and that they will care about you...well maybe they will...
        I am quite lucky as I do have a family and that others may not be as fortunate as me. Some children in the world may not even have a family or parents for that matter. I do sometimes feel guilty as I think of how I may sometimes take my family for granted when there are other people who don't have what I have. I will say that people who do have families think its one of the most horrible things to have while others may love their families with their heart but people who don't have families don't get the care that we do. Orphans are an example of this because they don't have the parents to support them but if you are an orphan you can think that your parents do care about you and that they did what they did for a good reason to do so. Family loves you no matter what unless... your family is like horrible.